Had a fight, and both of you are sure you're right? Tell the bot your side in private, and your partner tells theirs. Mediator explains to each of you what really hurt the other, and suggests the opening line that starts a conversation instead of round two.
The first analysis is free, right inside Telegram, nothing to install. You can invite your partner later.
About privacy, first. Your partner never sees your messages, and the bot never quotes them. The session deletes itself after a week; you can wipe it earlier with one tap in the menu.
#How it works
You tell the bot what happened in your own words, tears or fury included. Your partner gets a link and tells the same story from their side. The bot compares both versions using the Gottman method, the way family therapists do, minus the jargon and the two-week waiting list. It starts by asking who you are to each other: a couple, parent and child, friends or coworkers.
Tell what happened
A lawyer takes your side, a judge decides who's guilty. After either, making up only gets harder. Instead, the bot explains what hurt you and what was going on with the person across from you. After that you want to make up, not to win.
It lays out what happened and what you're missing right now: an apology, or simply being heard. It gives you one small step for today. And before you send an angry message, show it to the bot: it rewrites it so you get heard instead of a slammed door.
Once you've both cooled down, each of you writes where you landed, and the bot turns it into a shared summary. The next day it checks whether you talked. If the same topic comes up a third time, it says so plainly, so you fix the cause, not the trigger.
Write it as it is, caps lock included. Your partner has their own chat, and your words never end up there, not even paraphrased. They join through your link in a minute. If they're not ready yet, start without them: the "figure it out myself" mode exists for exactly that.
#How it's different from ChatGPT
A regular AI only hears you, so it always agrees. Mediator reads both versions, so it can't just nod along: its job is to get the two of you to finally hear each other.
No. Only the bot reads them. It won't show or retell them to your partner, not even close to the text. What it says about you is gentle and never a quote: not "here's what was said" but "it seems they feel lonely and want to be heard."
Start without them. The bot helps you understand what hurt and prepare for the conversation. You can invite your partner later, when they're ready, even a week from now.
No. "Who's right" usually breeds round two, not peace. Instead the bot explains what's going on with each of you. Often that alone lets the anger go.
No. The bot helps you get through one specific fight: understand what happened and decide to talk. If the problem runs deeper or there's abuse in the relationship, it says so plainly, that you need a real professional, and points you to help.
One analysis a month is free. After that it's a subscription: 250 Telegram Stars for 30 days. Stars are bought in a couple of taps inside Telegram with a card from any country. Only one of you pays; your partner joins for free.
No, it works for any two people: parents, friends, coworkers. Just pick the relationship type at the start.
The first analysis is free
Start without your partner and invite them later. Ten minutes in, you'll know what happened and what to do about it.
Sort out the fight for freeNo card, nothing to install. Your partner doesn't pay.
